Kapan lagi??
Kalo bukan sekarang, saat ini.
Belum tentu hari esok umur masih jadi milik kita.
Kalo belum bisa keduanya, lakukan salah satunya.
dikit demi sedikit mencoba mengikis dosa
dengan gak melakukan hal-hal yang bikin dosa
dikit demi sedikit menambah pahala
dengan melakukan hal2 baik dan berguna

dan satu hal yang pastinya baik
tidak melakukan hal2 yang merugikan diri sendiri dan oranglain
bahkan dalam tidur pun bisa bernilai pahala
dan Allah Maha Tahu niatan baik kita

sekali lagi bukan dosa yang ditakuti
dan bukan pula pahala yang dicari
tapi apalagi kalo bukan Ridho Allah Illahi Rabbi
Cinta dan RidhoNya akan memberikan bahagia dunia dan akhirat
Allah yang Maha Tahu keterbatasan kita
Allah yang Maha Tahu kebutuhan kita
Dan Allah yang Maha Tahu segalanya hingga kita diberi tanpa meminta
dan memberi lebih dari yang kita minta

Jangan menutupi hati nurani.. sejujurnya tahu dan mengakui
jika masih berlumur noda dan sulit memahami.. amatilah,
amati diri sendiri dan alam
dalam hembusan napas dan irama detak jantung
jangan sampai semua terlambat hingga masa menutup mata
dan napas sudah tiba di ujung tenggorokan
maka telat sudah tobat kita
kurangi dosa, nambah pahala yuk maree
bertobat sebelum ajal tiba..

Suasana syahdu lebaran ied adha terasa kembali. Tahun ini silaturahmi dengan keluarga besar hanya dilakukan via telephone, cukup menyejukkan hati mendengar suara orang2 terkasih, rasa kangen memang selalu membuncah dikala situasi khusus seperti lebaran. Keluarga besar suami mengadakan acara potong sapi di Haurgeulis Indramayu, keluarga menginap satu malam di hotel sebelum hari H. Dan keluarga besar saya merayakan seperti biasa berkumpul di Bogor.

Keluarga kecil kami sholat ied adha di masjid dekat apartment.

masjid puchong selangor

Tahun ini kami berkesempatan melihat sapi-sapi kurban sebelum disembelih, menurut informasi yang saya dapatkan, sapi2 tersebut yang jumlahnya kurang lebih 8 ekor saya lupa menghitungnya, adalah hasil dari tabungan kurban para jamaah masjid.

Usai sholat ied, ada pembagian snack yang cukup lezat.

Alhamdulillah, selamat iedul adha, semoga kita semua diberi kemudahan dalam berkurban kembali tahun mendatang.

Sudahkah anda menggunakan odol bebas fluoride? saya ada artikel menarik untuk dibaca,

“Tell a lie loud enough and long enough and people will believe it.” – Adolf Hitler
“Fluoridation is not about children’s teeth. It is about industry getting rid of its hazardous waste at a profit, instead of having to pay a fortune to dispose of it.” – Anita Shattuck
For the last 65 years, the fluoride debacle had been erupting like a volcano or simmering on the back burner. However, since the advent of the Internet, it is heating up again. The general public is being informed and educated about this most vicious and poisonous of chemicals. Many independent research sources across the globe are speaking out against this enzyme poison, killer supreme and climate change agent. It is becoming much more difficult to hide behind the phony facade of cavity prevention. Dental fluorosis across the globe has become undeniably epidemic. The dental industry no longer denies the problem of discoloration of teeth known as dental fluorosis. Their sole defence is that it’s only cosmetic. However, because fluoride accummulates in the bones, the teeth are a window into the state of health of the bones. It is now being realized that many cases of arthritis are actually skeletal fluorosis. The severity of skeletal fluorisis from volcanic fluorides has a well-known and well-documented one-thousand-year history of Iceland.
The most serious effects of fluorides is a gradual destruction of the thyroid gland and the immune system. Fluoride is a highly poisonous toxin that is a known cause of genetic disorders, cancer and low IQ levels in children. In Nazi prison camps and in the Soviet gulags, fluorides had been used to pacify and to modify the behaviour and the mood of the prisoners. Fluoride is concentrated in staggering proportions inside the pineal gland where it interferes with sleep, mood and the sex drive. Fluoride upsets the melatonin-serotonin cycle. Today, fluoride is the active agent in twenty-five percent of the major tranquilizers/antidepressants such as Prozac and Paxil.
Numbers of research scientists and high profile medical persons have come out strongly against the use of fluorides in the body. On November 24, 1992, Dr. Robert Carton, Ph.D., scientist and former President of the Union of Government Scientists at the US Environmental Protection Agency stated on “Marketplace” of the Canadian Broadcast Company that “Fluoridation is the greatest case of scientific fraud of this century, if not of all time.” CBS 60 Minutes. Interview of Dr. David Graham.
Misconduct in Science: As the co-discoverer of the antibiotic streptomycin, Albert Schatz, Ph.D., has super credibility. Albert Schatz stated, “There is no such thing as a threshold level below which fluoridation is not harmful. In other words, there is no safe dose. “Low-Level Fluoridation and Low-Level Radiation: Two Case Histories of Misconduct in Science” 1996, Philadelphia, Pennsylvania.
Dr. Arvid Carlsson, the winner of the 2000 Nobel Prize for Medicine stated that “Fluoridation is against all principles of modern pharmacology.”
Over 600 professionals urged Congress to stop fluoridation until Congressional hearings had been conducted. They cited new scientific evidence that fluoridation, long promoted to fight tooth decay, is not effective and has serious health risks. Signers included Nobel Prize winner, Dr. Arvid Carlsson, three members of the 2006 National Research Council (NRC) panel that reported on fluoride toxicology and hundreds of medical, dental, academic, scientific and environmental professionals worldwide.7
The contents of one large tube of fluoride toothpaste will kill a small child. Numbers of young children have died in the dental chair or shortly afterwards because of fluoride poisoning. Do check out Parents of Fluoride Poisoned Children (PFPC). “a website informing on fluoride toxicity.” www.bruha.com/pfpc/ Parents of Fluoride Poisoned Children (PFPC). “The Thyroid and Fluoride.” Sept 2000. www.rvi.net/~fluoride/000122.htm Parents of Fluoride Poisoned Children “Organic Fluoride Compounds.” www.bruha.com/pfpc/html/organic_F_.html Parents of Fluoride Poisoned Children. “Fluoride, Gingivitis & Oral Cancer.” PFPC Newsletter #9. 2002.
Two books which should be must reading for every Canadian and every American are Fluoride, the Aging Factor by Dr. John Yiamouyannis and The Fluoride Deception by Christopher Bryson, an investigative reporter and journalist.
Over the last 9 years, Dr. Hardy Limeback, Associate Professor and Head of Preventative Dentistry of the Faculty of Dentistry, University of Toronto, has been a high-profile critic of fluoride’s addition to drinking water. On various websites, Dr. Limeback states why he is “officially opposed to adding fluoride to drinking water.”8
A posting running for at least 6 years on a website of the Schulich School of Medicine and Dentistry, University of Western Ontario reads “Fluoride may potentially be linked to every major multiple cause ailment of the 20th century from cancer to Attention Deficit Disorder.”9
In a final arrow to the heart of this deception, do check out United States Patent 5,807,541. Simply, Google 5807541 and get a fluoride education from insider biochemists of Big Pharma. Because lying to the United States Patent and Trademark Office is an unthinkable offence, the following admissions by Big Pharma should be considered to be the gospel truth. United States Patent 5,807,541 states that “sodium fluoride and fluoroaluminates…have been implicated as important biochemical mediators of tissue destruction in various inflammatory diseases.” Patent 5,807,541 states that “the inclusion of fluoride in toothpastes and mouthwashes for the purpose of inhibiting the development of caries, may at the same time, accelerate the process of chronic, destructive periodontitis.” Periodontitis is a severe gum disease that results in pathological gum degradation and the loss of teeth. Patent 5,807,541 further admits that “Unfortunately, fluoride ion is extremely toxic.”
Fluoridation and dental fluorides have shaken the physical and psychological foundations of millions. United States Patent 5,807,541 is destined to shake the foundations of medicine and dentistry to their cores.

Sebenarnya bukan karena dari tulisan artikel diatas kami pun beralih dari odol fluoride ke odol non fluoride. Namun disini kami banyak mendapatkan informasi kesehatan dari sekolah anak kami di tadika mengenai bahaya fluoride dan anak2 sekolah di tadika dianjurkan memakai odol bebas fluoride, akhirnya mencari tahu dari banyak sumber online maupun buku2 kami sekeluarga tidak hanya anak kami, juga memakai odol bebas fluoride. Anak2 kami memakai odol pureen bebas fluorida, dan kami menggunakan sensodine bebas fluoride.

Kami tidak mengajak anda melakukan hal yang sama, hanya berbagi informasi saja, silahkan memilih yang terbaik bagi anda, dan kami menganjurkan dengan sangat untuk selalu mencari informasi yang sebaik-baiknya bagi kesehatan, agar insyaallah selalu sehat dan umur hidup bisa bermanfaat sebaik baiknya.

Here are 10 things happy moms do,
so remember these tips in your day-to-day life!

1. Find time for yourself
Happy moms know they deserve a little time to themselves. When you know you’re going to have a little room to breathe later on in the day, it’s easier to take on everything that’s in front of you. Our formula? Take 2 hours out for yourself every 3 days.

2. Don’t make a happy baby, happier!
We all do it…you see your baby’s head at what you’re sure is an unnatural angle snoozing in their car seat. You just know they’ll be happier if their head was straight. So you move them. And they wake up. Then they scream. Or, you see them playing happily in the sand. You just know they’ll be happier if they played on the slide. So you interrupt them and move them to the slide. And they’re angry. And they let you know they’re REALLY angry. Here’s the thing, they were happy. It can be hard to do, but if your kid’s not complaining, leave them be! Happy baby = Happy Mommy.

3. Embrace the mess
So your house doesn’t look like something out of a magazine. That just means it’s cozy! Your children have hands coated in dirt from the playground and faces coated in spaghetti from dinner. It’s not gross—it’s an adorable photo op! Life is about how you look at things. Next time that pile of laundry that’s been sitting on the chair for three days starts to get you down, just remember… it’s probably feng shui.

4. Make time for your friends
Your family can survive without you while you make time to see friends. You are a woman with your own identity and its imperative that you and that identity go out for some margaritas once in awhile!

5. Stop blowing yourself off
While you may be the one taking care of everyone, it doesn’t mean you can’t also get what you want. Help your family realize your needs are as important as theirs and when mom is happy, everyone is happy, but when mom is not….

6. Get in the zone
Take 10 minutes to do absolutely nothing but rest. Take a break from your day, close your eyes, breath in slowly and deeply through your nose and exhale through your mouth. Repeat several times. Think about a place you love that is relaxing, spend 10 minutes there in your mind.

7. Remember your dreams and goals
Everyday we are encouraging our children to reach their full potential. But sometimes in the midst of being a parent we forget about our own dreams and goals. The best thing you can do to encourage a child is to lead by example –happy moms hold on to their dreams and goals and don’t let go.

8. Be lighthearted
Don’t be the uptight mom. Be silly and dance with your kids to their music or tv show tunes. Be romantic and pull your partner into a waltz. Dance in slippery socks in your kitchen while making dinner.

9. Bend the Rules
One of the best parts of making the rules is occasionally breaking them. Maybe it’s taking your child out of school for half a day on their birthday, or waking them up in the middle of the night to see a sky of shooting stars. Happy moms know how to turn the mundane into fun.

10. Mind your own business
Concentrate on creating your life the way you want it. Take care of you and your family. Don’t get overly concerned with what other people are doing or saying. Don’t get caught up with gossip or name calling. Stop seeking the validation of others and be confident in yourself.

source: yahoo.com

I like this tinkerbell wallpaper.. do you? just right click and save as dekstop backround okey..

Cemilan favorite keluarga untuk teman minum teh sore hari:

bahan:
roti tawar
coklat meses
keju slice

cara: sehelai roti diolesi mentega sedikit, taburkan coklat meses, dan letakkan keju slice diatasnya, lalu panggang dalam sandwich maker.

Enakk bangets..:p

Hidup ini punya banyak pilihan..setiap saat ada saja keputusan yang harus kita ambil, suatu ketika akan ada 2 pilihan, kali lain ada 3 atau bahkan lebih.. kemudian suatu saat dengan mudah kita bisa memilih, saat lain ada kalanya bingung dalam pilihan..

Untuk yang sedang mencari yang terbaik dalam hidupnya..untuk yang sedang dihadapkan pada pilihan2.. ingatlah.. pilihan tersebut akan nenentukan nasib hidup didunia dan juga menentukan nasib diakhirat nanti..

Jangan menyekutukan Allah.. jangan menyakiti oranglain.. jangan merugikan oranglain.. berbuat baiklah pada kedua orangtua.. ambillah rezeki dijalan halal.. cukuplah pada kebaikan saja pada setiap pilihan untuk mencapai Ridho dan Kasih Sayang Allah.. sesungguhnya hukuman Allah itu nyata..takutlah pada MurkaNya.

Dan nasehat saya ini juga jadi pengingat diri sendiri yang kadang terlupa dan bingung dalam memilih..
Hanya pada Allah kita kembali..

Beberapa hari lalu blackberry gemini saya mengalami problem, kadang-kadang ngehang dan setiap hari baterai ngedrop. Setiap hari baterai ngedrop entah sejak kapan, sehingga pagi hari di charge malam hari sudah red alarm dan bb mati. Padahal sama sekali tidak ada program yang running, bahkan untuk ngetes seberapa parah dropping baterai, saya biarkan bb tanpa digunakan seharian setelah pagi hari di cas, dan ternyata malam hari tetap saja red alarm. Sungguh aneh.

Memang belakangan ini saya mendownload beberapa aplikasi, jika tidak cocok akan saya delete dan download beberapa yang baru, namun tidak ingat aplikasi2 apa saja yang saya install dan delete belakangan sehingga tidak ada track jelas yang mana yang membuat baterai bb drop seperti itu.

Akhirnya atas saran suami saya lakukan wipe ke factory setting. Dan menu tersebut sudah ada di blackberry. Namun satu hal yang penting agar blackberry punya backup terakhir agar data-data, contact phone dan BBM contact list tidak hilang. Ingat terakhir kali blackberry dibackup? Syukurlah saya punya backup bb di bulan Juli ketika bb saya tidak bermasalah. Dan saya pun melakukan wiping tanpa backup apapun agar penyakit lama tidak terbawa, akan saya restore backup di bulan Juli.

Berikut menu untuk wipe ke factory setting:
OPTION – SECURITY OPTION – SECURITY WIPE
Ikuti saja semua petunjuk disana dan lakukan wipe. Hanya beberapa menit sehingga blackberry kembali ke setting awal pertama beli. Selanjutnya mulai aktifkan SIM CARD BB ON dan ingatlah untuk berlangganan unlimited paket terlebih dulu, jangan pilih yang sosial limited, karena banyak aktivasi blackberry yang memerlukan paket blackberry unlimited. Setelah itu bisa dilakukan setup email dan lain lain. Dan RESTORE backup yang ada di PC ke blackberry.

Dan kini gemini saya kembali sehat lagi, bahkan lebih responsif dan baterai tahan lama. Alhamdulillah.
Jika anda melakukan wipe factory setting seperti saya dan mengalami kendala, berikan komentar anda, insyaAllah saya bantu bila memungkinkan.